abersparky in vegas

“It turns out that while you shouldn’t mess with Texas, you could probably get away with sticking at least a finger up in there.”
-The Sword

[via Joe. My. God.]

The Washington Post reviewed Grindr, the homo-version of Loopt. It’s only a matter of time before Manhunt.net gets an app on the iPhone and you can cruise anywhere, anytime.

Gay Dating Makes Its Way To The iPhone
Jason Kincaid
TechCrunch.com
Wednesday, March 25, 2009; 4:47 PM

The iPhone is a hotbed for location-based social networks, which tap into the phone’s geolocation features to help users find nearby friends and strangers that they might like to meet. We’ve seen a handful of dating applications that cater to the straight community, and today brings the launch of Grindr (iTunes Link), one of the first iPhone applications geared towards gay and bisexual men.

While privacy is an issue for all location based social networks, it is of the utmost importance on gay networks. Without proper security measures, bigots could easily download such applications and use them to pinpoint targets for hateful slurs and potentially even violence. Grindr deals with these issues by obscuring a user’s absolute location by default. Rather than plotting each user on the map. Grindr displays how far away they are (distances can range from a few feet to miles away).

The application presents users with a list of nearby strangers, arranged in a grid of photos (you can click on a photo to see their personal profile). From here, users can strike up a real-time chat. If they decide they like their new acquaintance, they can they optionally choose to reveal their exact location.

One of my concerns with new iPhone-based dating networks like Skout is they they have to face off with huge, well established players like Match.com, which are slowly releasing their own iPhone applications. Grindr’s Joel Simkhai says that there are a number of well established dating sites for gay men, but says that many of them feature adult content which Apple likely will be opposed to, giving Grindr a better shot.

Other gay dating apps on the iPhone include The Gay Community App, which appears to have been hampered by a number of bugs that were recently fixed in an update.

On April 29th, the House passed the Matthew Shepard Act (H.R. 1913) which expands the 1969 United States federal hate-crime law to include crimes motivated by a victim’s actual or perceived gender, sexual orientation, gender identity, or disability. Even through opposition from quacks like Congresswoman Virgina Foxx, who said that Matthew Shepard’s murder had nothing to do with him being gay, the bill has been now passed on to the Senate.

While catching up on my blog readings, I found this link via Towleroad. Hopefully this will shed some light on those who oppose equal rights for GLBT US Citizens and who deserves our support in upcoming elections.

Vote result: How your congressperson voted on the federal hate crimes bill that passed the House yesterday.

I am finally proud to be an American.  I’m watching the coverage via CNN.com’s Live feed which has teamed up with Facebook to provide live coverage online.  What a historic event.  My eyes were definitely tearing up when he said those final words of the oath: “…so help me God.”

If you haven’t already seen, The White House website (www.whitehouse.gov) has been updated right as President Obama began his Inaugural Speech:

A friend called attention to the Civil Rights section of the new site and I am glad it’s written that Obama supports LGBT rights!  Below is the excerpt from that page:

Support for the LGBT Community

“While we have come a long way since the Stonewall riots in 1969, we still have a lot of work to do. Too often, the issue of LGBT rights is exploited by those seeking to divide us. But at its core, this issue is about who we are as Americans. It’s about whether this nation is going to live up to its founding promise of equality by treating all its citizens with dignity and respect.”– Barack Obama, June 1, 2007

• Expand Hate Crimes Statutes: In 2004, crimes against LGBT Americans constituted the third-highest category of hate crime reported and made up more than 15 percent of such crimes. President Obama cosponsored legislation that would expand federal jurisdiction to include violent hate crimes perpetrated because of race, color, religion, national origin, sexual orientation, gender identity, or physical disability. As a state senator, President Obama passed tough legislation that made hate crimes and conspiracy to commit them against the law.
• Fight Workplace Discrimination: President Obama supports the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, and believes that our anti-discrimination employment laws should be expanded to include sexual orientation and gender identity. While an increasing number of employers have extended benefits to their employees’ domestic partners, discrimination based on sexual orientation in the workplace occurs with no federal legal remedy. The President also sponsored legislation in the Illinois State Senate that would ban employment discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation.
• Support Full Civil Unions and Federal Rights for LGBT Couples: President Obama supports full civil unions that give same-sex couples legal rights and privileges equal to those of married couples. Obama also believes we need to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act and enact legislation that would ensure that the 1,100+ federal legal rights and benefits currently provided on the basis of marital status are extended to same-sex couples in civil unions and other legally-recognized unions. These rights and benefits include the right to assist a loved one in times of emergency, the right to equal health insurance and other employment benefits, and property rights.
• Oppose a Constitutional Ban on Same-Sex Marriage: President Obama voted against the Federal Marriage Amendment in 2006 which would have defined marriage as between a man and a woman and prevented judicial extension of marriage-like rights to same-sex or other unmarried couples.
• Repeal Don’t Ask-Don’t Tell: President Obama agrees with former Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff John Shalikashvili and other military experts that we need to repeal the “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy. The key test for military service should be patriotism, a sense of duty, and a willingness to serve. Discrimination should be prohibited. The U.S. government has spent millions of dollars replacing troops kicked out of the military because of their sexual orientation. Additionally, more than 300 language experts have been fired under this policy, including more than 50 who are fluent in Arabic. The President will work with military leaders to repeal the current policy and ensure it helps accomplish our national defense goals.
• Expand Adoption Rights: President Obama believes that we must ensure adoption rights for all couples and individuals, regardless of their sexual orientation. He thinks that a child will benefit from a healthy and loving home, whether the parents are gay or not.
• Promote AIDS Prevention: In the first year of his presidency, President Obama will develop and begin to implement a comprehensive national HIV/AIDS strategy that includes all federal agencies. The strategy will be designed to reduce HIV infections, increase access to care and reduce HIV-related health disparities. The President will support common sense approaches including age-appropriate sex education that includes information about contraception, combating infection within our prison population through education and contraception, and distributing contraceptives through our public health system. The President also supports lifting the federal ban on needle exchange, which could dramatically reduce rates of infection among drug users. President Obama has also been willing to confront the stigma — too often tied to homophobia — that continues to surround HIV/AIDS.
• Empower Women to Prevent HIV/AIDS: In the United States, the percentage of women diagnosed with AIDS has quadrupled over the last 20 years. Today, women account for more than one quarter of all new HIV/AIDS diagnoses. President Obama introduced the Microbicide Development Act, which will accelerate the development of products that empower women in the battle against AIDS. Microbicides are a class of products currently under development that women apply topically to prevent transmission of HIV and other infections.

Today is a great day for this nation… we still have a long way to go – but at least, for once, we’re taking a step in the right direction.  A step I hope to be followed by many many more.

It’s about time they realized it!

There are a ton of ads out there now for Prop 8 which seeks to ban gay-marriage in California. Supporters of Prop 8 are trying to amend the California Constitution to add discrimination into what should be equal rights for all Americans. No on Prop 8 provides the truth and I urge everyone to make sure they vote NO on this and all discrimination towards same-sex marriage.

Paris’ new advert targeting the gay & lesbian (there’s a queen card version as well) demographic. The ad is definitely a well thought out and designed. This one was on the back of the Ribbon of Life show guide. So now, I live in a town which HRC gives them props and work for a company which HRC also recognizes as being the most GLBT friendly. I’m glad to see Vegas is slowly but surely embrasing the gays.

It seems the $11 million lawsuit wasn’t enough to discourage them from this immature and outrageously disgusting behavior:

-skimmed from Towelroad.

They always live elsewhere, don’t they?

What a weekend though! It had it’s share of drama (what trip with all mo’s doesn’t, right?), but I think that has to be one of the best (if not THE best) vacation/trip I’ve ever had (save the Italy trip, of course). The parties were great – the pool was HOT! – and the after-hours went on long after I retired to the condo. There a gobs of pictures on flickr, under the OMW 2008 set (including the flowers I sent to the boy I met out there). I believe – from the look of it – we have arrived. We are the A-Gays now. Or close to it… maybe B-Gays? LOL! Nonetheless, I had such a good time, it’s for sure going to be a repeat event. I ran into a ton of people from DC and Baltimore that I wasn’t expecting to see and some I was and glad I ran into. It’s a total clusterfuck when you get there – the first main event is at Typhoon Lagoon (water park) – so obviously, you leave your cell phone in the locker so no one has any way to contact anyone else. How did we live without cell phones?!?! Most of the others (with the exception of the pool parties) aren’t that difficult to get ahold of anyone since you’re wearing more than just a skimpy swimsuit.

So, yea, back to that other topic – - – what can I say?

All I can do is shake my head in awe and smile. For the first time, I’ve changed my status – granted it’s not “official” I suppose – but it’s defintely somethyng other than “Single”. One of those people you can’t get out of your head… ya know? I suppose it wouldn’t hurt to see where it goes, right? Perhaps the 2-Day Boyfriend will turn into a 1-Week Boyfriend here shortly when he visits… and then a 2-Week Boyfriend when I see him next… hmm… all this travel! I better get some mileage out of this! LOL!